Tuesday is never my favorite day. I know this sounds like a negative way to start the day but when my alarm goes off on a Tuesday morning there is a definite unenthusiastic sigh as I start my day. I love my job, I feel very fortunate to love my job but my Tuesday is a very long day with lots of driving that I always dread.
I start my day in downtown Dubai at a nursery. I teach from 2 year olds to 4 years olds. Aerobics and yoga. The kids are very sweet but as you can imagine getting 20, 3 year olds to sit down crossed legged and say ‘namaste’ is never going to happen, so I always find it somewhat stressful. I then drive to the neighboring emirate of Abu Dhabi to teach right in the heart of the country’s capital city.
So last Tuesday as I walk into the nursery I decide to have a new tact with the children. It was relatively simple, tire them out with more aerobics than usual so when I come to practice breathing exercises they will be too tired to try and rebel. It worked like a dream. I found myself driving to Abu Dhabi in a good mood.
I felt awful! I had always blamed my begrudging attitude towards my Tuesday’s on the amount of driving I have to do, but here I am not worried about the drive, just grateful to spend the morning not tearing my hair out!
I then went on to have really good lessons with my classes in Abu Dhabi. Is all this because the children this morning weren’t as hyper?
I worried about how I felt about this day until the next Tuesday came around. As soon as the children came running into the classroom at the nursery they were all asking ‘can we do the copying game’ or ‘can we practice our leaps?’. I realized the reason I was so happy after my last class with them was because of how responsive they were and how much they enjoyed the lesson.
I realized when reflecting on the whole day that I was so happy after my classes in the nursery as I felt I had made a break through with the children and they were now looking forward to classes and remembering exercises.
Likewise my classes in Abu Dhabi, again they went well and I just assumed it was because I was in a good mood. As a teacher you should never let your mood or anything going on outside of the studio effect your work. That goes without say for all professions, so I have been beating myself up that I am being unprofessional and have been devastated with myself.
After looking at my nursery class I looked back to the lessons I teach later that day. There was a completely different atmosphere in the classes as I had had to have words with them the week before. Both classes are for teenagers with a couple doing both the classes. They have the typical teenage attitude that young teenagers have, but I was used to this from the classes I used to teach back in England.
However the classes I was teaching these children is for ‘vocational’ exams so require a lot of dedication and commitment from the student’s part. I spoke to the classes explaining all that is needed from them and that whilst the potential is there, there is only so much I can do if they don’t put everything into their work.
So last week when I went to my class their attitude was completely different. They were ready and willing to learn. Taking on corrections I gave them rather than just rolling their eyes or taking personal offence. I enjoyed the classes so much as I felt like I was making a difference. I hate having to talk to students to tell them to work harder as I believe dancing above all else is to be enjoyable, but the difference in them was amazing and seeing the improvement in just one lesson was inspiring.
I still dread the driving on a Tuesday but I no longer wake up begrudgingly. I look forward to both my locations I teach at as I feel I make a difference. I love my job and everyday I smile in my lessons as I see the enjoyment and happiness I bring to the children I teach as I am giving them the chance to dance, something I love most in the world.
Reflecting back on last Tuesday however has made me realize. I was so quick to blame my driving for my bad mood when actually it was because I didn’t feel like I was getting all that I could from my classes. It is only a couple of weeks into the term and it does take children a while to connect with their teacher and feel comfortable around them. This was all that I needed; to pass the barrier so I can really help the children and push them to be the best of their ability.